God’s Faithfulness in Full Bloom: Welcoming Our Third Blessing

Just over two weeks ago, with hearts overflowing, we welcomed our third baby into the world, Zikora Porter.  With her first breath, that tiny cry, something in our hearts clicked into place.  Safe, healthy, and wrapped in the sweetest peace, this little one is a living, breathing reminder of God’s faithfulness and grace. It’s hard … More God’s Faithfulness in Full Bloom: Welcoming Our Third Blessing

5 Meaningful Ways to Support a Man During Men’s Mental Health Month and Beyond

June is Men’s Mental Health Month — a powerful reminder that mental wellness isn’t a gendered issue but a human one. Yet for too long, men have been conditioned to “tough it out,” to suppress rather than express, to isolate rather than seek help. The result? Millions of men suffer in silence. With Father’s Day … More 5 Meaningful Ways to Support a Man During Men’s Mental Health Month and Beyond

5 Key Lessons From Attending My Dad’s Funeral In Nigeria

Two weeks ago, I traveled to Onitsha, Anambra State in Nigeria, to honor my dad’s dying wish to be buried in his ancestorial home near his mother and father. It took place in his village Ogboli Olosi and I am very glad I had the opportunity to witness both his funerals (the other one was … More 5 Key Lessons From Attending My Dad’s Funeral In Nigeria

Embracing Your Own Timeline: The Power of Walking Your Own Path

Never let anyone rush the chapters in YOUR story. I’ve been shown time & time again that God’s timing is best, and even if people have opinions on your timeline, that’s none of your concern. In a world that constantly bombards us with success stories, highlight reels, and milestones achieved by others, it’s easy to … More Embracing Your Own Timeline: The Power of Walking Your Own Path

How to get PAID on YouTube: 12 lessons to Monetize FAST 

Becoming monetized on YouTube is a significant milestone, often requiring dedication, strategy, and perseverance. It’s a milestone that less than 6% of YouTube channels achieve, yet many aspire to. I launched my YouTube channel (@tiffofili) on 11/13/2023 and earned full monetization on 11/25/2024 with midway monetization granted on 9/5/2024. This to some would be considered “quick,” … More How to get PAID on YouTube: 12 lessons to Monetize FAST 

The Importance of Carving Out Quality Time for Your Kids: The 6 Benefits & Tips

I’m always searching for fun opportunities to have one on one experiences with my kids individually so they remember the special places they hold in my heart. Being a mom of two, I strive to intentionally carve out designated time for each child to connect and create those core memories.  In the hustle and bustle … More The Importance of Carving Out Quality Time for Your Kids: The 6 Benefits & Tips

Why I Chose to Be A Stay At Home Mom: The 6 Benefits

Back in 2023 when my family and I moved to Kansas City, my husband and I sat down and made the decision (with me being the driving force) for me to stay home full time primarily for our kids. As someone who has worn many hats from professional athlete, real estate investor, pharmacist, property manager, … More Why I Chose to Be A Stay At Home Mom: The 6 Benefits

Three Valuable Lessons You Can Learn From Attending Kansas City Fashion Week

In 2024, I promised myself I would embrace my personal style, and how it can vary from day to day depending on what I have going on. From my mom uniform of running shorts & a t-shirt to a cocktail dress that same evening for a date night with hubby, and everywhere in-between, I love … More Three Valuable Lessons You Can Learn From Attending Kansas City Fashion Week

What Traveling to the Olympics Alone Taught Me: The Transformative Power of Solo Travel

Last week, I traveled Paris for the 2024 Olympic Games to support my sister Cindy as she competed in the 100-meter hurdles. Being that I’m a retired professional athlete who spent her 20s basically living on a plane, I’m no stranger to travel, and I’m certainly not scared to travel alone. Once I got over … More What Traveling to the Olympics Alone Taught Me: The Transformative Power of Solo Travel

The Beauty Of Embracing Full Circle Moments with Kids

As a parent, the journey of raising children is filled with countless milestones, surprises, and heartwarming moments. One of the most profound experiences I’ve encountered along this path is witnessing full circle moments with my kids—those instances where life seems to beautifully come together, echoing memories of my own childhood while creating new ones with … More The Beauty Of Embracing Full Circle Moments with Kids

From Husband to Father: Jeff’s Journey of Love and Transformation

With Father’s Day 2024 quickly approaching, I’ve been reflecting on fatherhood, particularly that of my college sweetheart and husband Jeff. Witnessing his transformation into a father has been one of the most profound experiences of my life, and it’s made my love and appreciation of him explode. His fatherhood journey is marked by love, growth, … More From Husband to Father: Jeff’s Journey of Love and Transformation

The Ripple Effect of Kindness: Why Being Kind to Others Matters

I recently worked in the pharmacy for the first time in a few weeks, and I was pleasantly surprised by the number of kind words I received. From the patient who vocalized their satisfaction by the level of care I provided, to the technician who shared with me her gratitude for me going above and … More The Ripple Effect of Kindness: Why Being Kind to Others Matters